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“I went into the woods because I wanted to live deliberately. I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life…to put to rout all that was not life; and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived.”
- Henry David Thoreau

“You can prepare today or repair tomorrow.”
- Dave Darby

“When a person does not know what harbor they are making for, no wind is the right wind.”
- Seneca

“I don’t want to get to the end of my life and find that I have just lived the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well.”
- Diane Ackerman

“Success is a result, not a goal.”
- Gustave Flaubert

“Better to light a candle than to curse the darkness.”
- Chinese Proverb

“The more sand has escaped from the hourglass of our life, the clearer we should see through it.”
- Nicolo Machiavelli

“Entrepreneurs are simply those who understand that there is little difference between obstacle and opportunity and are able to turn both to their advantage.”
- Nicolo Machiavelli

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  • Punished By Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise, and Other Bribes
    Punished By Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise, and Other Bribes
    by Alfie Kohn

    Another book that I probably agree with the principle but not the origins.  A great read so far.

  • Talent Is Never Enough: Discover the Choices That Will Take You Beyond Your Talent
    Talent Is Never Enough: Discover the Choices That Will Take You Beyond Your Talent
    by John C. Maxwell

    Any John C. Maxwell book is a great read and this is no exception.  How many people think they can or cannot make it in this world simply because of talent?  What is amazing is how many people hold on to this view despite much evidence to the contrary - talent is great but determiniation and focus will take you farther.

  • Wired That Way
    Wired That Way
    by Marita Littauer, Florence Littauer

    Always the student - I (nurture) totally and utterly disagree with the title (nature), but I bought and I am reading anyway.  Full of great observations - we just disagree on the origins.

Current Listening
  • One Particular Harbour
    One Particular Harbour
    by Jimmy Buffett

    Our namesake and still a favorite.  One particular harbour - have you found yours?

  • 5th Gear
    5th Gear
    by Brad Paisley

    This guy has a great sense of humor.  Ticks.  I’m Still A Man.  It’s simple, but hey, it’s real and that’s country.

Friday
12Jun

Flight Attendant Rapper

Monday
30Mar

From Our Mouths to Their Ears (and Mouths)

We must shop late at night.  The girls are playing ‘store’ and Nicole just said over the ‘store microphone’ “Attention shoppers, we will be closing in 5 minutes.  Please gather your items and proceed to checkout.”  Clearly she has other things to do!

Kind of reminds me of my Buckeyes playing (very loose interpretation) the Gators for the national title a few years ago - on my birthday no less.  Olivia (2 at the time) walked around the next stay shouting “Damnit!” in a very aggravated tone.  Still aggravated, I didn’t mind.

Which is also reminiscent of the story my mother loves to tell about the time we were rough-housing in the back of a parked pickup truck.  I went over the gate backwards and upon landing bit my tongue in half.  My mother lost sight of me for a moment while signing me out and rushed to find me.  As she turned the corner, she heard the policeman ask me, “That’s horrible!  What are you going to do to Joey when you get home?” to which I replied with my tongue taped/glued together “I’m going to go home and kick his ath.”

Saturday
14Mar

Fired by Hallmark

Years ago I saw something of a joke about how Hallmark could make any moment better. One idea from boss to employee…

Front of Card:

“I don’t know how we’d ever get along around here without you…”

Inside:

“But starting Monday, we’re going to try.”

Sunday
22Feb

Metric Weight Loss Plan

We had a fun email today from a likely new client.  Turns out her husband is a former NHL-er playing in a Russian hockey league.  Very cool.

Being a sports guy, I had to look up his team and noticed something.  The player’s weights are in kilograms.

Hmmm…did you know I only weigh 110kg?

Yeah, that’s what I was thinking - pretty cool.  But one thing I never liked about the metric system is that it was a beautiful sunny today in South Florida and yet it was 24°…Celsius.  Sorry, I don’t like the idea that it was ONLY 24.  That’s cold.

Then again, I think if it was only 24° and I played 2 hours of aggressive tennis at 110kg - then, well, maybe it’s not so bad.

Not that I look like 110kg, mind you.  Most people guess that I’m between 90-100kg - which is my goal - but whether I look like it or not, it slows me down on the court from time to time.  It’s time to get serious so I can improve my health AND my game.  And now that I’ve gone metric, I think my goal will be easier to achieve - I mean, it’s only 10kg, right?

How hard can that be?

Tuesday
17Feb

Marcia, Marcia, Marcia!

A little tired today.  It’s Tuesday and already a busy work week with new clients coming on board with our marketing business, plus I’m doing some traveling to coach a great new client with loads of potential.

On top of that, I played a mixed doubles tennis match off island this morning.  We won handedly and that would have normally invigorated me, but again it’s only Tuesday and my butt is stuck on Monday.

That’s when it happened.  I am a little spaced out staring out a the palms blowing in the beachy breeze seeing a very beautiful day outside.  Lauren, our oldest daughter walked into my view with double pony tails which probably isn’t called pony tails at all since I’ve never seen a pony with two tails.  But that’s a discussion for Wednesday, which I may not have until Thursday because again, I feel a day behind.

Lauren smiled.  I smiled.  And it hit me.  Wow she looked like Marcia Brady just then.  Then it hit me again, wow, we have more girls than the Bradys.  Then it hit me again, wow, we’re one kid shy of the Brady Bunch.  Then it hit me again, if you have a big family, chances are somebody’s going to take a football in the nose one day.  Then it dawned on me, if I get hit again today, I’m going to start hitting back - tomorrow.

We are celebrating our youngest daughter in family this week though.  Potty training.  Emily looks like she shed her last diaper a full 5 weeks before her 2nd birthday.  Wow.  That beats Olivia who bailed on diapers on her 2nd birthday.  And we didn’t even have to bribe Emily with M&Ms.  She just did it.  She also helps put clothes away.  Man, there is something to be said for peer values/learning.  Monkey see, monkey do.  I might discuss more about that on Friday, which will probably be Saturday, but will still feel like Thursday.

So, with back to back to back to back to back kids - that’s a total of 11 years and 3 weeks of diapers.  While it would be fun to have an even half-dozen, I think our first time out of diapers seals the deal.

Man, I’m tired.

Monday
26Jan

Soap and Water Still Works

When is progress a setback?  What are acceptable risks?  What price are we paying for our obsession with laziness and speed?

A commercial today might as well read like this:

“No time on your hands?  Tired of your clogged sink?  NO PROBLEM.  Pour this highly toxic chemical in your drain and let it sit for 10 minutes.  This not only eats away grungy hair, but it releases harmful toxins that may likely send you into shock or give you unexplainable cancer one day.  But, HEY, this is TODAY!  And today, you don’t have time for such petty concerns.  Give us 10 years of the end of your life and we’ll save you 15 minutes every 4 months - GUARANTEED or your money back.”

Several years ago, we broke free and took a stand. No more chemical cleaners in the house.  Well, not 100% gone, but probably 95.4% gone.

We still keep chlorine bleach but we also alternate with hydrogen peroxide bleach.  We keep window cleaner but we water it down in a separate bottle.  And we don’t spray for bugs so much to my wife’s chagrin, we occasionally have ants.

What’s the big deal I say?  Ants aren’t so bad.  In fact, we homeschool and I think having ants fulfills a biology credit.  Those little suckers are amazing to watch!

Plus, it’s pretty simple.  No food crumbs left behind - no ants.  No matter how clean we are, with 5 kids, we’re going to get a few ants from time to time.  What I don’t want is those suckers tracking in pesticide for our 2 year hold to be handling.  And trust me, this girl will and does handle them.  It is not uncommon at all for her to walk into the room holding a prize by the legs proclaiming -“pider!”

By the way, fear is a learned behavior, but that’s for another day.

So, the lesson is this: we have more access to both medical knowledge and care than any other time in history.  Yet cancer rates continue to rise.  Why?

YEAR   NEW CASES   DEATHS*

2002   1,284,900      555,500
2004   1,368,030      563,700
2006   1,399,790      564,830
2008   1,437,180      565,650

*from the American Cancer Society

At what point do we realize that cancer just might be a poor-man’s or rushed-man’s disease?  At what point do we realize that feeding and caring for massive population growth requires preservatives and toxins that just might - oh my what a coincidence - curb population growth?

From a big picture, macro level (i.e. Government), it makes sense to have acceptable levels of death by toxins, cancers et al.  After all, it is a strain on our global economic systems to have population booms, unemployment and poverty.  What would it be like if 2.5 million people didn’t die each year in the US alone?

But nobody lives on the macro level.  Nobody want’s cancer nor do they want it for their loved ones.  So here’s an example of how we ‘survive’ by not playing the macro, mainstream advertising game and by living without chemicals in the house.

About 2 weeks ago, I grabbed a bucket and a few old towels and hit all 3 bathroom sinks.  It’s this simple, removed the drain trap (ample info on Google), stuffed a rag in the pipe coming out of the wall to keep fumes out, then I took the parts to a working sink and cleaned out the trap.  The main bathroom sink was the worst so I started there - I always like to do the hardest job first.  Oh by the way, It’s also a good idea to do this 2 hours before or after a meal.

I use an old bottle washer to clean out both the trap and the pipe down through the sink - just remove the stopper and swab away.  Put it all back together, run water and test for leaks then the real test - pull the stopper, fill the sink with water the pull.  Ahhhh, record time.  That’s how a drain should work.

No expensive chemicals.  No harmful toxins released in our house.  It wasn’t the most apetizing thing I’ve seen, but who cares?  For 3-4 months, our drains will work perfectly.

See?  Soap and water still works.

Save yourself and your kids - get rid of those chemicals.  It’s a great way to teach kids how sinks work and hey, in these (or any) economic times, it’s a great way to grow your net worth.

Wednesday
21Jan

Blue Moon

So it’s about 44° when I head out for tennis - at noon - in southern Florida.  For reference, the normal has been about 74° until a few days ago.

No worries.  A buddy of mine and I had no problems playing golf in shorts in a few Indiana winters regardless of how many weird looks we’d get.  Like everybody else, I throw on and begin with an extra layer, but cold out or not, I’m down to shorts and a thin shirt when the beads of sweat build up.  As they did today.

We were playing doubles and given the cold, we had a higher than normal crowd watching rather than playing.  Right at the start of this new set, I broke out in a sweat.  No way I’m waiting until the end of the first game to break free.  So while our opponent was picking up a loose ball, I casually and quickly unzipped my leg cuffs and played out that point.

Very cool - no interruptions.  Now’s my chance - the server is walking mid court for a loose ball.  Gotta move quickly so I toss down my warmups and like any good warmups, they drop straight to my ankles.  It is at this moment I catch the bright blue color of my shorts out of the corner of my eye and instantly it registers - I don’t have a bright blue pair of shorts.  “Underwear??  @#$@# where are my shorts??” went the thought.

That’s what I get for getting up early today.  I threw on my warmups to get through emails as I was hesitant to switch the lightly used AC to heat.  And of course, I would never double up with shorts inside.

So, I’ve been 40 for 2 weeks now, but this is the first time I’ve felt it.  And for those of you who think you can’t still touch your toes in record time, I’ll bet you can.  Like you, I just haven’t been properly motivated - until today.

The moral of this story?  Don’t change your habits after 40, you could end up showing your ass.