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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.9.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Thu, 11 Mar 2010 21:35:18 GMT--><rss xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><title>One Particular Harbour - Dave Darby's Journal</title><link>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/</link><description>Read Dave Darby's journal as he and his family journey to their One Particular Harbour!</description><lastBuildDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 17:50:18 +0000</lastBuildDate><copyright>Copyright ©2006-2007 Dave Darby</copyright><language>en-US</language><generator>Squarespace Site Server v5.9.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</generator><item><title>Block Out The Noise</title><dc:creator>Dave Darby</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 17:40:25 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/2010/3/6/block-out-the-noise.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">84851:732318:6926090</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 440px;" src="http://www.davedarby.com/storage/articleimages/covers.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1267897282847" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>Going back to re-work a few things and re-organize a bit, but we&#8217;re getting really excited.</p>
<p>Block Out The Noise: And Take Back Your Life will be done soon.&nbsp; This book focuses on showing&nbsp;you how to recognize and eliminate the subliminal noise that bombards us daily and controls our lives.&nbsp; It is especially appropriate in this recession.</p>
<p>I am also working on (though a little slower) on turning our seminar series from a few years ago into a follow-up book in the series, Block Out The Noise: Building Your Ideal Life.&nbsp; We&#8217;ve had such great feedback throughout the years that we&#8217;re really anxious to see it in written form.</p>
<p>Time for&nbsp;some kid-time with a trip to the park or maybe the fair, but then back to writing for me.</p>
]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-6926090.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>30,000 Ago</title><dc:creator>Dave Darby</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 16:42:46 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/2010/3/6/30000-ago.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">84851:732318:6925803</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Where has the time gone?&nbsp; We&#8217;ve been so busy trying to improve/grow our businesses that this blog has become an after-thought - a search engine friendly&nbsp;archive of sorts.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s see if we can change that.&nbsp; Hard to remember that, at one point, this lil blog had 30,000 reads a month at one time and my content was being picked up and re-blogged by users all over the world.</p>
<p>Our &#8220;Building Your Ideal Life&#8221; slideshow&nbsp;once had 20,000 viewers and was one of the top viewed slides at Slideshare.</p>
<p>But then came facebook and LinkedIn and of course, kids, family, businesses and a trip around the sun.&nbsp; Lots of growth, lots of learning, lots of posting, but very little blogging.</p>
<p>So I don&#8217;t know if we&#8217;ll see 30,000 again but I&#8217;m going to take the first step and kick the dust off.&nbsp; I am working on my first book in a series for Block Out The Noise so I will be talking about that a lot and my thoughts may be incoherent as I get back into Freud, Maslow, Skinner, et al.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s see how it goes.</p>
]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-6925803.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>10 Weeks to Save</title><dc:creator>Dave Darby</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 15:30:19 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/2009/10/19/10-weeks-to-save.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">84851:732318:5550610</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Reminder that GM is closing dealerships and this year&#8217;s economic stimulus package allows you to save big bucks on a new car purchase through Dec 31.&nbsp; The stimulus incentive will deduct your sales tax (if you have sales tax in your state).&nbsp; For us,&nbsp;that&#8217;s $2600 on our new suburban we purchased in September which is probably $800+ real tax credit in 2010 for us.</p>
<p>Which reminds me, only 10 weeks left to save on Disney annual resident passes which are being extended to 15 month passes.&nbsp; Our car tax savings will pay for half the cost of Disney for our family for over a year.</p>
<p>A win-win as we inject that money directly back into the economy (the intention of the stimulus) and our family gets much needed time together at discounted prices at a place we really enjoy.</p>
]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-5550610.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Email alerts - I love you man</title><category>Health</category><category>Organization</category><category>Productivity</category><category>Technology</category><dc:creator>Dave Darby</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 17:43:14 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/2009/10/15/email-alerts-i-love-you-man.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">84851:732318:5495876</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>I love email alerts I just don&#8217;t usually talk about them.&nbsp; But this week I&#8217;ve been improving my systems to be more efficient - more efficient for clients, family and dammnit, for me.&nbsp; So today when I see a few email alerts that save me time and aggravation, I have to grab the bullhorn and talk about a few things that are helping me grab life&#8217;s bull&nbsp;by the horns.</p>
<p>First up, vehicle diagnostics email from GM.&nbsp; Both right side tires are 2lbs low - gotcha.&nbsp; Next gas trip, I&#8217;m on it.</p>
<p>Next up, quick link to BaseCamp reports for time sheets - tomorrow is payday and these new reports allowed Julie and I to quickly review everyone&#8217;s time and get everybody paid in less time/effort.</p>
<p>Finally, Kohl&#8217;s statement alert - this is a big one folks because we just opened our first &#8216;charge&#8217; account in, I don&#8217;t know, 10 years??&nbsp; You know how every store clerk asks the obligatory, &#8216;would you like to save 10% today?&#8217;?&nbsp; Well, I usually respond with &#8216;what, so you can try to hook me for 30% tomorrow?&nbsp; (I smile when I say it, I think it&#8217;s cute but maybe it&#8217;s not.) Well, I was &#8216;in the mood&#8217; at Kohl&#8217;s last month.&nbsp; See, I don&#8217;t shop and we&#8217;re pretty low key when it comes to shopping and&nbsp;I don&#8217;t give a squat about social norms.&nbsp; We buy what we need when we need it&nbsp;(like&nbsp;NFL Sunday Ticket)&nbsp;and we pay cash.&nbsp; BUT - Kohl&#8217;s offers really exceptional, ongoing deals to credit clients sooooooo, we did it.</p>
<p>So why did I really appreciate that email alert today?&nbsp; Because it was our first one and it quickly dawned on me, whoa, it&#8217;s been about 5 weeks since we opened that and, whoa, their automated system used our old driver&#8217;s license address (we moved 6 weeks ago) and we had to call to have them cancel/resend new cards and, WHOA, I&#8217;ll bet those bastards hit me for 30%!!!</p>
<p>Yep, payment turns out was due last week and we weren&#8217;t in the system for last month&#8217;s notice.&nbsp; Well to Kohls&#8217; &#8220;credit&#8221;, they quickly reversed those charges and I promptly paid the account online&nbsp;&#8216;in full&#8217; - no finance or late charges.&nbsp; Whew - that was a close one.</p>
<p>So,&nbsp;email alerts, because you this week&nbsp;we will get our team paid with a record minimal effort, improve the safety, fuel efficiency and wear/tear on the suburban and we won&#8217;t get jacked up by ridiculous finance/late charges.&nbsp; I love you man.</p>
]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-5495876.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Success</title><category>Quotes</category><dc:creator>Dave Darby</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 14:47:18 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/2009/9/25/success.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">84851:732318:5295202</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Success is how high you bounce&nbsp;after&nbsp;hitting bottom. ~George Smith Patton</p>
<p>As for the future, your task is not to foresee, but to enable. ~Antoine de Saint Exup&eacute;ry</p>
]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-5295202.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Lo and Behold!</title><dc:creator>Dave Darby</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 19:19:38 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/2009/7/14/lo-and-behold.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">84851:732318:4614927</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>I used this phrase just a minute ago on our business blog, and like usual, I had to wonder, what the hell does that mean?</p>
<p>So you may sleep as well as I do tonight:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">The word &#8216;lo&#8217; as used in this phrase is a shortening of &#8216;look&#8217;. So, <em>lo and behold! </em>has the meaning of <em>look! - behold!</em>.</p>
<p>As so elegantly put in The Princess Bride when the hero Wesley knocks out Fezzik (Andre the Giant who was&nbsp;7 feet, 500 lbs) - now we can all &#8216;rest well and dream of large women!&#8217;</p>
]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-4614927.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Work, work, work!</title><category>Business</category><dc:creator>Dave Darby</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 19:22:05 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/2009/7/9/work-work-work.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">84851:732318:4574583</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>I have been reminded a couple times&nbsp;this week that&nbsp;I have abandoned my blog and that I suck!</p>
<p>Ha!&nbsp; Well, I haven&#8217;t abandoned it, but our business has had 3 record months in a row and that has consumed my time, thoughts and energy.</p>
<p>So just a quick thought for now - you can grow a business in a recession.&nbsp; In fact, it&#8217;s the perfect time to grow.&nbsp; And with a better available work force, we&#8217;ve worked hard to grow our team to 7 now - from all corners of the globe - well, nobody at the poles yet.&nbsp; Do they have internet there?</p>
<p>So have a great journey today and this weekend.&nbsp; I promise to start dumping my brain and experience here more often.</p>
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]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-4310810.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>From Our Mouths to Their Ears (and Mouths)</title><category>Children</category><category>Global</category><dc:creator>Dave Darby</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2009 19:39:51 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/2009/3/30/from-our-mouths-to-their-ears-and-mouths.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">84851:732318:3513203</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>We must shop late at night.&nbsp; The girls are playing &#8216;store&#8217; and Nicole just said over the &#8216;store microphone&#8217; &#8220;Attention shoppers, we will be closing in 5 minutes.&nbsp; Please gather your items and proceed to checkout.&#8221;&nbsp; Clearly she has other things to do!</p>
<p>Kind of reminds me of my&nbsp;Buckeyes playing (very loose interpretation)&nbsp;the Gators for the national title a few years ago - on my birthday no less.&nbsp; Olivia (2 at the time) walked around the next stay shouting &#8220;Damnit!&#8221; in a very aggravated tone.&nbsp; Still aggravated, I didn&#8217;t mind.</p>
<p>Which is also reminiscent of the story my mother loves to tell about the time we were rough-housing in the back of a parked pickup truck.&nbsp; I went over the gate backwards and upon landing bit my tongue in half.&nbsp; My mother lost sight of me for a moment while signing me out and rushed to find me.&nbsp; As she turned the corner, she heard the policeman ask me, &#8220;That&#8217;s horrible!&nbsp; What are you going to do to Joey when you get home?&#8221; to which I replied with my tongue taped/glued together &#8220;I&#8217;m going to go home and kick his ath.&#8221;</p>
]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/rss-comments-entry-3513203.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Fired by Hallmark</title><dc:creator>Dave Darby</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 14 Mar 2009 19:15:50 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.davedarby.com/journal/2009/3/14/fired-by-hallmark.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">84851:732318:3312178</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Years ago I saw&nbsp;something of&nbsp;a joke about how Hallmark could make any moment better. One&nbsp;idea from boss to employee&#8230;</p>
<p><em>Front of Card:</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">&#8220;I don&#8217;t know how we&#8217;d ever get along around here without you&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p><em>Inside:</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">&#8220;But starting Monday, we&#8217;re going to try.&#8221;</p>
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