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“I went into the woods because I wanted to live deliberately. I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life…to put to rout all that was not life; and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived.”
- Henry David Thoreau

“You can prepare today or repair tomorrow.”
- Dave Darby

“When a person does not know what harbor they are making for, no wind is the right wind.”
- Seneca

“I don’t want to get to the end of my life and find that I have just lived the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well.”
- Diane Ackerman

“Success is a result, not a goal.”
- Gustave Flaubert

“Better to light a candle than to curse the darkness.”
- Chinese Proverb

“The more sand has escaped from the hourglass of our life, the clearer we should see through it.”
- Nicolo Machiavelli

“Entrepreneurs are simply those who understand that there is little difference between obstacle and opportunity and are able to turn both to their advantage.”
- Nicolo Machiavelli

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Current Reading
  • Punished By Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise, and Other Bribes
    Punished By Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise, and Other Bribes
    by Alfie Kohn

    Another book that I probably agree with the principle but not the origins.  A great read so far.

  • Talent Is Never Enough: Discover the Choices That Will Take You Beyond Your Talent
    Talent Is Never Enough: Discover the Choices That Will Take You Beyond Your Talent
    by John C. Maxwell

    Any John C. Maxwell book is a great read and this is no exception.  How many people think they can or cannot make it in this world simply because of talent?  What is amazing is how many people hold on to this view despite much evidence to the contrary - talent is great but determiniation and focus will take you farther.

  • Wired That Way
    Wired That Way
    by Marita Littauer, Florence Littauer

    Always the student - I (nurture) totally and utterly disagree with the title (nature), but I bought and I am reading anyway.  Full of great observations - we just disagree on the origins.

Current Listening
  • One Particular Harbour
    One Particular Harbour
    by Jimmy Buffett

    Our namesake and still a favorite.  One particular harbour - have you found yours?

  • 5th Gear
    5th Gear
    by Brad Paisley

    This guy has a great sense of humor.  Ticks.  I’m Still A Man.  It’s simple, but hey, it’s real and that’s country.

Welcome to our ‘One Particular Harbour’.

We’ve set up this site, thanks to our friends at SquareSpace, so friends, family and anyone else who is intrigued can follow our journey.

Learn the origin of One Particular Harbour

What journey? Glad you asked. We are building a business whose sole/soul purpose is to help others find their own ‘One Particular Harbour’.  What we do is called Life Coaching and our business is called LifeMAPP.

There was a snag in our philosophy however. You see, to help people find happiness and reach their potential, we first look at their environment - as one can only be as successful as their environment will support and allow.  I mean, can you picture an aspiring deep sea explorer thriving in Chicago?  Deep sea exploration just isn’t the hottest ticket in the Windy City.

The snag? Well, both Julie and I are energized by warm weather and oceans.  And what we are doing with LifeMAPP is cutting edge in the fields of psychology and sociology, not to mention we are utilizing the latest the internet has to offer with blogging, sharing and expressiveness.  The snag for us was this: the midwest/Ohio valley is great and will always be our roots, but it just isn’t the environment that satisfies the above.

So we did something radical.  We sold our house and everything in it with the exception of what we could carry in our Surburban - which isn’t much when you’re toting 6 people!  It was quite the daunting idea, but let me tell you, the execution of this concept was even more challenging.  You see, our house sold 24 hours after listing!  So we had 3 weeks - read that again - 3 weeks to sell everything (I’m talking from televisions and Tivos to screwdrivers and silverware).  It looked like we were running an auction with all of the people coming and going during that final few weeks.  Absolutely crazy.  It finally took a cartop carrier and 2 trips from 800-GOT-JUNK to pull it off in the end, but oh was it so rewarding.

First, we headed off and down the East coast to Orlando.  We spent our first weekend with grandparents in Cincinnati before heading down to Nashville’s Opryland Hotel.  We huddled up in a secluded cabin in Gatlinburg before heading off to visit friends in Charlotte.  Then it was off to Hilton Head for a week where we made some new friends from Virginia.  A quick skip through Savannah and St. Augustine and we were in Orlando for over 4 months.

We started off with San Diego as our eventual destination, but were keeping our options open as LifeMAPP’s success was paramount.  That’s when Texas reached out and grabbed us on our way through to California.  So, Austin, at least for the near future, appears to be the happy medium that allows us access to all we need to pursue our dreams.

Why didn’t we just head South and West?  As we prepared for this transition, two things dawned on us:

  • In the 3 years of building LifeMAPP, we’ve made a lot of sacrifices including time with our 4 children and we have another child due in March.  Let’s have a little fun along the way.
  • In our mid-30s, when else will we have this opportunity to enjoy the countryside and heritage of this great country with our children.

Besides, if you’ve ever built a successful business, you know that taking a business to the top requires a lot of focus, determination and energy, but keeping a business on top requires even more.  Let’s enjoy the calm before the storm.

Plus, as Winger (Bill Murray) poetically stated in the movie classic, Stripes: ‘I know now why I’ve always lost women to Army guys like you.  It’s not the uniforms.  It’s the stories you can tell…’ Well, I don’t know of anyone who has ever sold nearly every possession including their home and set off to explore the world - not alone and certainly not with a family. So, there’s a story we can tell that most people can only imagine.  Now granted, we have a business that supports this habit so it’s not like we’re flying without a net, but hey it is certainly not the ‘norm’! :)

So, here’s to LifeMAPP and here’s to Texas!

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